Tuesday, December 18, 2007

whats been up

its been a busy few weeks. i don't even remember my last update. my hotel has 2 quality audits a year, one between jan1-jun31 & jul1-dec31. our first QA was feb 2. typically they are conducted 5-6 months from each other. having 12 days left in the time span to have our audit we finally received it! GOOD NEWS, my hotel, my team, rocks. 89%, the highest we have ever seen.
went to Chicago with Alex over the weekend. great times, have some good stories to share as well. BT was interesting as always, and had a SWEET room thanks to my bud RYAN.
the week before that i hung out with the oldies. remembered why i stopped talking with one of them, and got up in the middle of dinner and left. also hung with some worthless guys that have no goals...i had a field day making fun of em. and they thought i was so funny they called the next day to hang again.
and yes yes, my PF changs dinner experience on the east side. 2 hour wait and seated in 10min. i rock.
o yes yes, the T MOBILE Detroit ID stealer's thing is resolved. they even sent me a check for $5 for the police report they required me to file...they are out over $2500. suck to be you T MOBILE.

be safe, i will upate soon, bz

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Tuesday, December 04, 2007

hate Hanukkah, even more now...

i know i share this story a lot throughout the year and especially around this time of year.
my Hanukkah story...(with a new twist)
my parents never really gift givers, and if they were... they weren't good at it. friends always bragged about how many presents they would receive, 1 for each night, or the loads people received on XMAS.
so 1 year my parents gave me a gift one night. it was of course unwrapped and contained no card...it was 1 pair of socks. thats it, nothing else...i was angry, upset...i was outraged. i shared a few choice words with my parents "what the fuck...SOCKS?!?" they responded with "but they are Tommy Hilfiger Socks!"
i said "WHAT THE FUCK?!"
i was then told i was ungrateful and haven't received anything on Hanukkah, ever again...
that same night my friend god a brand new VW car...no bitterness.
HERES THE NEW TWIST!

my parents were over last night and we were talking about something...and presents/gifts came up and so did a conversation about my sister...she just got a new car, and i said something to the effect of..."what did you get her a remote control starter for her NEW car?"
and then there was an awkward silence. yes, yes they did...they just bought my little sister (who had a car handed to her and wasn't appreciative of the gift and pays no gas or insurance) a car starter...they were concerned that there was no remote unlocker...godforbid she have to use the key to unlock the car.

so ya, same ole.

bryan


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Friday, November 30, 2007

funny convo

treat: I don't do straight bars.....
that's an absolute NO NO
me: : not like bar club dance
thing....i like just chill bars
treat: I don't care what it is...
lounge, bar, club, etc... if it's straight...
I'll be a non-attendee...
me: lol really?
treat: really!
me: y?
treat: almost all of em are so
fuckin arrogant... and can barely hold a
conversation.... or they always talk
about some "bitch" they're fuckin... or
how many they fucked... or who their
current fling is...
me: kind of like the gays? lol

Sunday, November 11, 2007

it was a good weekend. i went to midland on Friday. i was nervous about the drive but it wasn't bad. i did it in about 2 hours or so. there are a million speedway gas stations up there!...just an observation...it was confusing navigating the city because i felt like i was going nowhere. hung out with David on campus, then we went and grabbed some food. then saw a movie, dan in real life. the movie started off slow but had some funny moments. it was a good movie! Saturdays we we went to his schools football game for a quick minute. it was smaller than a high school game, it was crazy! we went for dinner at MACYS, it was good! then watched little miss sunshine on dvd...i love that movie. it was a good weekend. it went well. i am excited about what may come from it. it will be interesting.

bz

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

FOUND IN HOTEL GUEST ROOM....SEX TOYS

So some housekeepers called me into a room today. In the guest room there was a video camera (pointed towards the bed) and on the bed, a dildo, anal probers, saran wrap, and a vagina simulator. Just another day in paradise!


Monday, October 08, 2007

i was hit (phsically) by a car (a nice one)

i was walking out of TARGET earlier and to my car...i had just picked up my lunesta and was reading it in the parking lot on the way to my car. all of a sudden my hands (which were stretched out in front of me, holding the bottle). A woman driving a lexus suv was backing up and i literally walked right into her car, thankfully, my arms were out, otherwise she would have ran over my feet first. i kind of stood there, less than an inch from the car, staring in shock...that was interesting.

earlier on the radio they were talking about fred phelps. they played my FAVORITE song by their crazy ministry? godhatestheworld


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Sunday, September 30, 2007

i think it would be kind of funny if the state went into a partial shutdown.
in a sick twisted way i hope they do...i do not want me taxes raised, they should cut spending. Michigan has the second highest paid legislatures in the country. take a pay cut...everyone else is...dam michigan government, i wonder why everyone is leaving the state. and if they go on a shutdown i think a class action lawsuit should be started for a refund of any state taxes we are paying. i want my money if your not working!

bz

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Wednesday, September 26, 2007

day 1, done

i am so . . . . . :(


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Tuesday, September 25, 2007

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Monday, September 17, 2007

bubbas dead :(

So on Thursday 9/13/07 my grandma (bubba) passed away. The last few years were a battle; I did my best to be by her side the entire time. Watching her forget me (her favorite grandchild) was the toughest thing I have ever dealt with. Knowing she hasn’t been around the last few years, to many to even remember, has made her actual passing that much easier. Its surreal, knowing I cant visit anymore, feed her ice cream, play with the elmo dolls I bought her, see her smile.

Thank you to everyone who has wished me well and for the phone calls, emails, text messages and visits. I have some great friends, it’s a tough time for my family and I, and I couldn’t imagine dealing with this without you, you guys (you know who you are) are the amazing, thank you, I love you to.

Sam (my 95 year old grandpa) has been talking about a vacation for all the grandchildren…I thought he was just TALKING, but it ends up my grandma has left money, for us to actually go on a trip, something I didn’t know. The trip, if it happens, will be a great way to honor and remember my bubba.

I don’t think the jews allowed it, but my brother and I stuck an elmo doll in my bubbas coffin.

Love you bubs.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

my grandma is dead
love ya bubs

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

2/2 weekend will turnout.
Bz
1/2 life of ryan on MTV
wow lots of drama with a young guy.
I think its entertaining.

Been a busy week at work
my gma is dieing.
Wonder how the

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

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spider's in my house!
They are all over!

Sunday, September 02, 2007

so my dad went into my old work the other day and talked to my old boss. he said in some conversation or another..."bryan misses working here so much!" which is NOT TRUE! I HATE THE EMBASSY, great learning expereince, horrible people, and place to work. i was pissed, he could have said "he misses you guys so much" but that would be a stretch.

i know my old boss reads this, lol, so dont get the wrong idea. leaving there and going to my new place was the best thing i have ever done!

went and saw the gin blossoms last night at arts beats and eats. i only knew one or two songs and they didnt play them until the end. who knew gthey had so many other songs.

Sunday, August 26, 2007

its been a while, but here

so I have been busy!its been a few weeks since an update.A is doing good :-)the pas few weeks at work have been busy...my boss was out...had a conference, then I moved.Thanks to kris and caryn and the folks for helping me move...My cousin was supposed to help but didn't show...said he was sick...and then went out with the family for lunch...last time I go out of my way to help him...The new place in farmington/novi is cool...come check it out...Be safe, bz

Monday, August 13, 2007

last week...

its the 13th of aug, and in 4 days i move.
its been an incredible year. started off crappy, and went down with a bang!
living with my bro was great. had some great times, weird friendships came, relationships come and went, and my door, my apartment was always open.
ann arbor is an awesome city, except for the traffic, the traffic cops, the touristy people...
its nice being able to walk outside, for fun, food, bar, shop, whatver.
novi will suck...yet be great.
i will have my own place, be 3 miles to work.
i think that is all.
my boss is on vacation all week.
work should and will be grueling.
wednesday some colleauges come into town, i think i am taking them out at night, should be fun.
thursday an all day seminar downtown...PARKING IS $20...WTF
friday, get the keys to my new place.

what a week. call my cell. be safe, bz

Monday, August 06, 2007

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weekends are always crazy.
Love 'em but wow they are crazy.
Alex I love you and so does everyone else.
I move out in 12 days are so and I am kind of sad.
Hope everyone is doing good.
Have another funny Embassy story.

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

wow. so this guy that i hired and fired went to two other hotels where he embezzled. right now he is being procecuted. HAHA, thats what you get.

so i quit embassy last october. best decision i could have ever made. love my new job, its a new life...EMBASSY called me today (they have called a few times) for help with a computer program. HAHA, i think its funny, i would give them adivse if they paid me, lol a lot. they are useless. i was the best thing that ever happened to them, and this prooves it.

keeping busy with work. allen is headed to georgetown, i am headed to novi, this upcoming year should be interesting.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

i have said it before, and i will say it again...
i think EXTREME MAKEOVER: HOME EDITION is a great show.
its make me feel good, it reminds me that there are still good people out there.

weekend was good, i saw the simpsons movie, it was good, but i was hoping for better.
saturday went into work for a bit, lot of service recovery
today just chilled.

i am doing good, i hope you are to.
i am starting to move out on the 17th of AUG and to novi i go, back to suburbia.

be safe, bz

Sunday, July 22, 2007

2/2 g this the best birthday ever.
1/2 this weekend was amazing.
Allen, kris, jason, hadi, jay, fahad.
friday piece
saturday crazy
I have a great group of friends.
Thanks for makin

Thursday, July 19, 2007

what a good birthday,
work went good in the am
went for lunch with my boss
had my yearly review which was awesome.
got yelled at by the VICE PRESIDENT of KROGER!
went for dinner at PF CHANGS with my fam, grandpa, and emily
home now, i think bar in a bit,
off work tommorow!
chicago after 4
then a good time!

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Art fair today
Birthday tommorow
Chicago Friday
what a good end to the week!

Friday, July 13, 2007

I think my bubba(grandma) is dieing.
She is on morphine and probably won't eat this entire weekend.
Its sad. Wow.
bz
Wed was awesome.
Thanks to everyone that came.
It was awesome!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

JULY 11, 2007

i woke up really early
i went downriver for my apointment
i am off the P
i am free.
i went to work early, it was a good day. some crazy guy thretined to hurt me after work. i called the cops.
we had our BBQ.
our scores are amazing
i went and saw teresa.
i got to leave early.
i will see her in 4 weeks.WOW
i just got home, great day. wow.
going to the BAR tonight to celebrate, this is better than my bday
alex, allen, emily, c(k)ris, kiki, krissy, and who knows.
thanks to everyone for their support throughout the last year.
i couldnt/wouldnt have been able to do it without you.
i am free.
come celebrate.
are fair next week, then chicago, the move, then work trip.
going to be a ride the next couple of months and i cant wait!
bz
I am free...
Never going dowinriver again.
Celebrating tonight!
call for details.
:-)

Friday, July 06, 2007

you know.

Wow today was awesome. I woke up scared though. I realized I left my car parked on the street. I then realized that they started writing tickets at 8am, and it was 930am. I then figured I probably had a ticket. Then I remembered I was parked in the truck loading zone. They start metering that at 6am. I figured my car had been towed.
I left my house angry, nervous, and in a panic.
My car was still there so I drove to work. I didn’t feel like wearing a tie today, so went more casual. My boss decided not to wear one either. I was happy. Work was great. it’s a slow week which is nice. It felt like a Monday and the 4th went on as if it was a Sunday. It was weird.
I worked til 530ish and came home. I picked up EMILY and Eric the HJ. I was in a good mood.
We then walked to state street and saw SICKO. We then went to AUT. The waiter was slow and fat, but surprisingly nice. Dinner was fun, and long. It took forever. There was a table for an AIDS organization and I was enquiring on how I could volunteer. I was talking and told the girl I had just been tested Sunday. She said she was working Sunday. I said “oh the confidentiality thing, HI!” I broke the ice. It was fun and I got free condoms that I ultimately left on the table.
We went to pay, we came inside because the slow waiter never brought the bill. It got intense quickly, and drama filled. The owner of AUT was a complete dick. I spend a lot of money there, tip way to nicely for the high prices and the owner was a dick. I said something. He faked an apology for what he didn’t know he did.
I will NEVER go back to AUT. I would rather sit at home, or ever the dam METRO before aut. NO WAY!
We then walked back to my apartment.
Today was awesome. If you weren’t there, I wana know why. I am fun, loveable, o wait its not a personal ad. Sorry.
Less than 1 week for me. WEDNESDAY JULY 11, 2007. Around 10pm, we/i will be celebrating. Its been a crazy year, but probably my best year ever. It started off bad, had some low points, but I am living on my own, surrounded by a crap load of good friends, great job, great everything. Its good. Come celebrate.
be safe, bz

Monday, July 02, 2007

weekend was good, 9 more days!
then 18 days.

someone stole my checking account information and has been paying their t-mobile bill.
$50 then $217.99 thats crazy.

thank god i didnt have money in that account!

bz

Monday, June 25, 2007

grandma

i dont like her. if i never saw/talked to her again i would be fine.
what a waste of space and time.
she used to promice to take me to disneyworld, and then call and CXL at the last minute. i had my mickey ears on and everything.

friday went to sauatuck with c(K)hris. we saw altarboys. that show is awesome. love it. then walked around, talked, and had dinner.
saturday alex and i chilled all day. went to the EMBASSY with her for lunch, i do not miss that place one bit, thank god im gone. then saw my bubba, sister, her brother, ha dinner at PF CHANGS, chilled at her place, came to mine, chilled then went aut. then came home and had pizza.
today we chilled. KRISSY IS OK!! then took a nap, caribou, nap, i had dinner with doug, then went with alex and KIKI, then went to WRAP?
now i am going to go to bed. JULY 11, then JULY 20. ITS HAPPENING!!!!!!
chicago july 20, if you wana come just come, i have a two bedroom suite in downtown. will be fun.

i think that all

Tuesday, June 19, 2007


this is the cookie i bought for my sister after her boob reduction surgery. its from cookiesbydesign. THEY ROCK!

what do you think

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

i dont get it

i dont get it.
confused.
saw knocked up on friday it was awesome! funny. was there on a date and my boss asked where ALEX was, HAHA.
went to grizzly peak afterwards, saw allen em and sarah, it was fun.
canton was tiring.
slept the rest of the weekend? was chill
been a busy week at work.
RYAN the girl/manager at noodles and company has a crush on me. if only.
C&N-i dont get it. WTF!
allright, thats all

jim the video store owner downtstairs sold his store! he didnt even say anything. he was like an uncle. i am sad. i even bough him an XMAS present.

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

today/weekend

wow, the weekend was off the hook crazy. i was always doing something, i am so tired now!
friday that creep came over.
saturday wine, cheese and cracker (i ordered cokeacola and pizz) at emilys.
i discovered ARRESTED DEVELOPEMENT.
sunday alex ditched me, she still owes me.
went to meijer and bought AD
then went to RO with chris and saw a movie based on my life, it explained so much.
then i got a ticket on the way home. the lady chased me through 4 lanes of traffic and got me on the offramp...she said, what, you taking 6 mile all the way back to A2...i thought it was funny.
we then went to the bar, had some more creeps over afterwards. mostache. gross.
monday went with alex to mongolian, then chilled, napped, cleaned and then kiki and chris with a k come over.
i found out Elijah is on a porn site, i called and asked for a discount on membership because i knew him. he declined.
i was up til 2am last night and then worked this morning.
it was my first day back to work in about 10 days. i was out in troy all last week, i had SO much catching up/cleaning up to do. my desk was piled with paperwork all day.
i had 5 interviews for a FD agent, they went pretty well. we'll see.
my evening social person quit on me today, no notice, NOTHING! anyone want a job mon-thur from 4p-8p. i need someone reliable ASAP.
work wasnt bad, it was so so so good to be back.
chillin now after a long day at work.
i wish i had an extra day to just SLEEP!
should have slept yesterday, but i had an AWESOME weekend instead. oh yeah, doug, hadi and I had a 3 way phone call with alex on speaker. it was fun.
Chicago in 1 month.5. i cant wait.
be safe.
bz

Saturday, May 26, 2007

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007

wow. i have been keeping busy.
last week sun-wed i was out in troy helping out. it was different than my work, and i missed it!
wednesday i went to court to fight a traffic ticket. the cop showed up, and i lost.
i was bummed.
i have to pay some money and am adding points to my driving record. BS.

thursday and friday at work were good.
friday we watched alpha dog, AMAZING MOVIE, i loved it. i want to see it again.
saturday alex and i went to the mall, then to the zoo with chris (ithink its with a K) and KIKI.
good time.
then went to RO for dinner, and i was less than satisfied.
then to ferndale.
came back to my house and we watched SHORTBUS.
then alex and emily were here, crazy long night.
Sunday we had brunch at AFTERNOON DELIGHT.
good times like always, and i used 3 of my frequent goer cards, $21 off lunch, NICE!
then i took a nap, and went to the burbs for dinner.
my night auditor called off and i had to work overnight sunday.
that sucked. it hit me at like 6am, i was out of it.
slept all yesterday then had an appointment in RO, then back to bed.

i am going to start working from 10a-7a. not to bad. i can sleep in a little, and not getting off work to late.
i need to hire a new front desk agent. are you, or know of someone who is looking? get in touch.

thats whats been up with me.

be safe, bz

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

i catered in dinner from MAX & ERMAS tonight at work.
i brought about a gallon of the tortilla soup home.
yum.

i didnt eat it all, it actaully became fillin.
i had the fried tortilla on top.

i will be out at our TROY property helping out next monday tuesday and wednesday, and again the full week of the 21.
should be a fun challenge.
i will stay out there when i am working there.
i hope i dont get to lonely.

i think thats all now

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

the mates

take what is yours
not what is not.

clean your mess.
not group cleaning.

i dont get it.

Sunday, April 29, 2007

50th entry

# 50, how bout that.
weekend was good.
friday hung out
saturday has my bros graduation, then party, then dinner, then aut
aut sucked. over it.
alex is snoring in my bed now

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

meeting

my meeting this morning went well.
i love driving 45min DOWNRIVER for a 5 minute appointment
the appointment was good.
JULY 11, 2007 is the day to look forward to.
JUNE 28, 2006 was a day of change, and a year and a few days later i will be free.
8 days before my 22nd bday. couldnt have gotten myself a better present.
that means party this year, it will be my 22nd 21st? something like that.

party this weekend at my house.
so ya ya

besafe

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

AI

i found nothing on tv tonight but american idol.
it was interesting. good singing, good looking people.
eye candy.

i have been watching the third season of ENTOURAGE on dvd.
i love that show. i wish the episodes were longer.
tonight i have only 1 show left on the dvd, i normally watch 2 or 3 shows a night so that means i will have to get out of bed to change the dvd.
shame, i know.

meeting in the morning. hopfully it goes like i want it to.

work is good, always good.
grad party this weekend for my bro at our place.
cant wait, stop on by for some free beer and food.
call or write or comment for more info.
alex, yes you are invited.

bz

Monday, April 23, 2007

speechless

wow, i really just dont know what to say

Saturday, April 21, 2007

wii wii.

anyone know where i can get a nintendo wii?
i am bored and want to play

Friday, April 20, 2007

HATE

i think i am oblivious to hate.
i was listening to the radio today on the way home from work and they played this song.
westboro church has a crazy website. GODHATESFAGS....WTF?


"They turned America Over to fags; They're coming home In body bags."
thats a quote from their website. i think they hate everyone. everything i am? HAHA

i am going to hell :(

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

BRYAN

i have to high of standards.
i dont think they are to high, but with the number of dates i have i think it speaks for itself.
dont be a stereotype. to many people are.
i am not, i am me.
i like me,
i talked to someone on the phone, it was akward. it reminded me of doug
i called doug. a good 30min conversation, its about time!
he said i am growing up/have grown up.
i think i have.
my own life, own place.
weird.
june 28th is just around the corner.
i have a meeting on wednesday about that night. i wonder what will be said of it.
it was a life changing experience.
its made me stronger, better behaved.
i think i might be rambling.
i wonder if anyone even reads this.

THUR AND FRIDAY i have a training class to go to.
work sponsored. i wonder how that will go.

DONE

its over. TT is over and out.

bz

Monday, April 16, 2007

MONDAY

i have nothing witty to say today.
that makes me sad.
i want to be funny.

what a crazy day

Sunday, April 15, 2007

i just watched "engaged and underage"
WTF!

baby talk...what?

someone i know had a baby.
its different this time, it was a childhood friend.
not some trailor trash girl i met in highschool.
i find it weird still, having a baby so young, being married so young.
whats the rush?
when you have a baby you are adding a responsibility to your life for the rest of your life.
can people are age be set financially already?
i make a decent amount of money where i can support myself, and enjoy myself, but having to spend that money on a baby, right now, WOULD SUCK.
i find it weird. maybe people have babys to add enjoyment to their world. id rather by a toy and be able to put it away when i am bored or done for the day.

now i want a new toy.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

crazy guys at emu

elijah, now this, lol
this guy kicked out of his house looking for extra cash

emujock04 (8:25:14 PM): how much will you pay for sex with me?
bryguy85603 (8:25:37 PM): $0.00?
emujock04 (8:25:44 PM): fk that
bryguy85603 (8:25:49 PM): fk you

WTF?

Sunday, April 01, 2007

i wanted to write something, but forgot what i wanted to write.
it would have been a good entry to.

i went to my parents house tonight, i can only be there for a short period of time, they are very overwhelming to be around.

we ordered dinner. somehow i bought. that seems to happen offten.

weekend was boring and low key, just kind of chill.

march sucked and went out with a bang, or something close to it.
april is a busy month. something will always be happening. i hope that is good.

thats all i have right now.
i have goals in life. i set my standard pretty high and accept nothing but perfection from myself and others.

old friends going nowhere with life bothers me. its sad for them. its sad for me. what if i was still freinds with them? would i be going nowhere with life as well?
JR=FA? wtf, who would want that life. a bizillion job changes, who would even want to spend the time hiring and training that, it takes so much time and energy hiring and triaing someone that it is aggrivating when they dont work out. if im ever on a plane with that i might die laughing.

i had that type of person work for me, did a bad job than quit cause he could make 50cents more next door, needless to say he did a horrible job, and was let go. i walk into another hotel last week to drop something off and needless to say he was working the front desk at another hotel. i was laughing. the only thing that came to my mind to say was "i see your making your rounds throughout every hotel in livonia!" he refused to help me and walked away.

i made my way up to different hotels but never for a lateral move and because i worked my ass off at a job and was getting more money, a better job, and a better future.

JR and people like him are going nowhere with life. what a waste of space.

BS got laid! i am happy for him. 10 years after i got my first bj he finally got some. good for him. i think its an awesome story.

there you go.

Saturday, March 31, 2007

i imed someone who was in A2....we were talking and said we met before...so i start freaking out cause i didn’t know who it was! they wanted to hook up and i was like when where how did we meet, and they said we had dinner once....so i remembered who they were and it was a boring dinner date, I ate quickly and then took off. Heres the conversation from earlier after they said we had met.

A4: so...
thebryguy: i remember
A4: and now you're not interested?
thebryguy: i didnt think we really clicked
A4: it's a one night stand -- not a marrige
proposal :)
thebryguy: eh, i live up to my standards....good
luck bro
A4: haha -- well -- good luck to you -- you're
the one who messaged me
thebryguy: i forgot who you were, sorry
A4: I'm sure you are


HAHAHAHA
so there you go.

Thursday, March 29, 2007

my new shirts





Monday, March 26, 2007

Thursday, March 22, 2007

THIS STORY WAS NOT REPORTED-i am mad

i read the newspaper everyday, i watch the news everyday. i am what one might call a news junkie.
THIS STORY WAS NOT REPORTED
DETROIT - Andrew Anthos had many passions in life, including old movies, legendary Hollywood screen sirens and a 20-year campaign to illuminate the state Capitol dome in red, white and blue one night a year. While he never hid that he was gay, he was no gay rights activist.
But after dying of injuries suffered last month in what witnesses portrayed as a gay-bashing, the 72-year-old Anthos has become a powerful symbol in a campaign to amend federal and state hate-crime laws to protect gays.
"The whole point is making sure that people have equal rights in the legal system, people aren't picked on or threatened just because they look or act differently," said state Sen. Hansen Clarke, who plans to introduce legislation to amend Michigan's Ethnic Intimidation Act.
According to police and family members, the Detroit man was riding a city bus home from the library on Feb. 13, singing along quietly to Spanish music on his headphones. A young man asked him if he was gay and called him a "faggot." Anthos ignored him.
The man followed Anthos off the bus, confronting him again. Anthos told the man he was gay as he helped a wheelchair-bound friend who was stuck in a snowbank, witnesses said. The man struck Anthos in the back of the head with a pipe, stood over him as he lay on the ground and ran off after Anthos' friend yelled for him to stop.
Anthos fell into a coma on Feb. 21 and died two days later.
Police have no suspect but released a composite sketch of the attacker. The department is investigating whether it was a hate crime.
"He wasn't robbed. Nothing was touched," said Anthos' cousin Athena Fedenis. "It was strictly a hate crime."
Fedenis, 45, said Anthos told her what happened from the hospital and she took notes because she "wasn't going to let this get thrown underneath the rug and let it be forgotten about."
Anthos touched the lives of many people. He struck up an improbable friendship with Ava Gardner in the late 1960s after going to a New York hotel where he learned she was staying, his cousin says. His campaign to light the state Capitol dome in honor of police officers, veterans and others put him in contact with countless lawmakers, reporters and others in Lansing.
Fedenis said Anthos asked her before he died to promise that she would work to realize his goal of lighting the Capitol dome. She established a nonprofit foundation called Andrew's Light to take contributions. Money that doesn't go to the effort will be donated to the Triangle Foundation, a gay rights advocacy group.
The federal and state legislative efforts have been around for at least a decade and picked up some support after the fatal beating of gay Wyoming college student Matthew Shepard in 1998. Now, advocates hope, Anthos' death adds some urgency.
Rep. John Conyers (news, bio, voting record), D-Mich., introduced legislation in the House this week, and Sen. Carl Levin (news, bio, voting record), D-Mich., cited Anthos on the Senate floor earlier this month when he said he would soon help reintroduce a bill that would expand the definition of hate crimes to include gays and allow the federal government to help local law enforcement investigate hate crimes.
Anthos went from job to job when he was younger but apparently was not working at the time of his death. He was on state disability; Fedenis said he was diagnosed as mentally ill in the 1950s.
He often traveled, scrubbing the stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame and laying flowers at Marilyn Monroe's crypt. When he met Gardner, he gave the actress pictures he had collected from magazines and later was invited to her home, his family says. She later wrote a letter supporting his dome-lighting crusade.
Julie Cook, who befriended Anthos in the late 1980s and remained close to him, said he put up with apathy and outright hostility in his dome campaign.
"He would stand on corners and people would throw things at him," Cook said. "It didn't matter. He would research the busiest corner to stand on where he could be seen the most."
While Anthos aggressively sought support for the idea, he wanted to be in the background, not in the limelight, Fedenis said.
"He wanted all the attention to be strictly on the dome for the veterans, the doctors, the police officers, the firefighters, the less fortunate," she said.
(A previous version of this story incorrectly stated the date of the attack on college student Matthew Shepard. It was 1998, not 1988.)

I am not a gay rights activist by any means, but THAT STORY WAS NOT REPORTED.
eh

i am over it, but wtf. the rapes and the murders and the kiddy rapers, and the president are all reported. eh.

let me know what you think.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

i am home. i am with alex. she wants me to tell everyone i love her. i do. she says good.
i think we are going to the jap steak house for dinner tonight. i am hungry, they make me happy.
food. oh food.
i went to dunkin dounts for free iced coffee today. it was disgusting. dam you free coffee, dam you.

oh god, i have a story to share.
a homeless who was drunk and had no where to live walked in my front door and passed out at the bottom of the steps. what is AnnArbor coming to? they make me sad.
my brother finally was able to use our home alarm system. the baseball bat scared the homeless lady away.

congrads caryn, congrads

Saturday, March 03, 2007

so I was eating lunch at work on Friday and someone asked me what I was doing over the weekend. I didn’t have anything planed but I knew and figured Alex and I would do something crazy/entertaining/fun.
It was quiet at work and I had a few hours left so I started checking out my hotel discount in other cities. I found a room in Chicago for the weekend and it was cheap.
Alex and I drove to Chicago Friday at about 5pm. It was a crazy road trip. It started to snow and it didn’t stop. We drove through (what I am classifying as) a blizzard and white out conditions. For the first time in my life I was scared driving.
On the way we got a hold of H and he invited us to stay at his place. He just moved to the city and lives right off Michigan Ave. Free parking and a free place it couldn’t be better.
We then went north of the city to linkin park area and bar hopped. Wow the Chicago is amazing. We met a cool group of people at every bar. They had some drinks, (I had bed bull and cokes), we had a great time.
My night auditor at work called off for SAT night, today alex and I woke up and went shopping.
I got 2 pars of rockports for $100.
Then we drove home.
The city was amazing, the time was great, if you want the full details, just ask.
Be safe, bz

Saturday, February 24, 2007

a poem

(to the tune song "a long long time ago")
a long long time ago, you might once remember,

(to my own tune)
I wrote a thing about boy, who was not a joy,
I said some mean things that were very very true.
I also said some things about someone that has since made me feel blue.
He is still a molester, (who is not a true jew) his roommate not so creepy
all this rhyming is making me so sleepy.
Chris the agriculturist gave me PROPS for what i said
he made me feel so good for exposing the molester who wanted in my bed.
i say it like it is, i say it how i see
ive decided the molester should be a SHE...that i can guarantee
the bar tonight was lame
though the people were not a bore
being 1230a and waking up at 5a will be a chore.
ive said what i have needed to say, its time for theBRYguy to hit the hay

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

as if it couldnt get any better!

i had a meeting with the regional manager.
him and my general manager want to fasttrack me to a GM within the next 2 years.
where would i be willing to relocate?! ANYWHERE!
it was a fun pep talk.

bz

Friday, February 09, 2007

i love life.
i am here for a reason.
tonight was a blast.
getting excited about the winter blast.
i wish it was summer.
i have a lot of energy.
i am content with life.
my job is AMAZING.
my friends are AMAZING.
my place is getting there.

be safe, bz

Monday, February 05, 2007

i worked out 4 days last week. mon tue wed fri. i ate healthier and ate out way less. GO B
went today, and am going to keep it up.
weekend was fun
had an awesome time with A.
friday was fun, urgent care, leave it up to me.
saturday afternoon delight and to the mall and then the bar.
saw some cool people.

go bz

Monday, January 29, 2007

i found a reason to live, and the reason is YOU.

i worked out tonight, i feel amazing.
i worked today for the first time since the hospital. it was good. i love life, im living it to the fullest.
thanks for all the well wishers and worriers. it means more to me than you;ll ever know.

be safe, bz

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

i think when i am mad, i do things that ultimatley make me angrier.
leave work and go to the E?
check out stuff, then get that text.
i went to wndys for like the millionth time today....the guy placed my drink on the drive thru counter and kind of just left it there. i was waiting for the guy to hand it to me. he kind of nodded at it, so i did the same. i just paid 6 bucks for a combo, and i fucking upsized it, you best hand it to me.
i think that is all

Sunday, January 07, 2007

i am me, are you you?

i went to fort wayne over the weekend. it was a good expereince. i realized i am not that person anymore. i am grown up, i can make my own decisions. it hurts to say goodbye. i dont know why. its not even who or what i want. it was, now i am back at square one.
it was fun, but i dont need it anymore.

i am me, are you you?

be safe, bz

Friday, January 05, 2007

stock my fridge

christmas was good.
new years was awesome.
its january...we moved into our place in AUG. we never had a stock the fridge party. that disapoints me. if you havent been to my place, you should come check it out. i love it!
i have a lot of full throttle. different flavors to.

i am driving to see M tonight. its been a while, this should be fun.

be safe.
bz